big month, big mouths
Wow, on this day before turkey day, we've definitely had our ups, downs, clogs and floods.
The good times began on Sat. A.M. when I filled in for Sylvia to pick up Heather & Co. at LAX, and she got angry, just like clockwork, because I had the bad taste to park and the curb and not inside the parking structure, and patter over to the terminal where they sat, waiting, without imagining that I could possibly be at the curb. This is a definite disconnect. Taking the trouble to get to the airport, only to be yelled at. Something wrong there.
Second day, Shea spent the weekend, which was good. What wasn't was that she jammed a ton of lettuce in the garbage disposal, which created a sea of green slime, which sat there until Sun. morning, when Heather came to the door and demanded that I come out and fix things. Shea was officious and demanding, as was her sister. Finally, after mucho plunging, we freed it. Only to have a laundry overflow that afternoon because nobody checked the vibrating washing machine which got that way because a person loaded a heavy bathtub pad into it, which unbalanced that.
But wait, it gets better. After Shea left on Sunday night, Heather and I got into it over her teenaged habits/behavior which I still contend contributed to some of the problems we're having now. Heather states that she couldn't be expected to know better, because she and Shea fell into the trap at the same time, but I countered that she knew to come to us, and neither did. Sneaking around instead, which they knew was wrong.
She then called me a miser and I invited her not to stay, because who wants to stay with a miser...it's a long story. So they were packing up to leave, but we resolved things, at least temporarily, so it's all sweetness and light...except, Heather & family visited Disneyland all day yesterday, and were in a bad mood this morning because the park was super-crowded and she hates California...and it's not even Thanksgiving yet, when I guess I'm supposed to give thanks for all of this.
If that's the case, these are the reasons. Camilla, fast approaching her first birthday, staring at me with a sly smile whenever I'm around. Powerful enough of a reaction to make me decide not to shave my gray, old-man beard. Is her baby talk in Danish/English with a Joisey accent?
Torben, a great kid considering the circumstances he has nobody except his cousins, which he'll see tomorrow, in town to play with. Very verbal in two languages, smart as any five year old I've ever met.
And tonight, Heather found out she has a job interview at Rutgers for a spam graduate writing job. Best of luck...the very best.
See you on turkey day.